I have been on the very same frustrating journey. Still not fully sorted out but I have learned a few things that might help you:
1) Vacuum bleeding will only get you so far because it sucks some air in past the nipple threads, pressurizing the MC works better.
2) Bench priming the MC will only get you so far.
3) I only got substantial improvement when I parked on a 30 degree slope and bled the nippers there.
4) The anchors on the backplates seem to work loose over time. Often these are welded back in place to secure them but if they are not in exactly the right spot, the shoes won't center right in the drums. After having replaced everything else (cylinders, shoes, drums), I eventually bought new backplates (ouch$$) and it helped. Unfortunately it wasn't the magic bullet I was hoping for, but at least the shoes wear evenly now and some of the spongyness is gone. I had replaced the drums because at first it was hard to get the drums on over the uncentered shoes, then when I had them "skimmed" at a machine shop the ID was too big leading to a poor fit with the shoes.
5) It's a fine line between pads being over and under adjusted. a little over is better because they will bed in.
6) It's a fine line between the MC shaft being adjusted too short and too long. Too long and you can lock up the brakes because the MC can't relieve itself, too short and there's not much travel left for the brakes!
7) Worn pedal bushings will eat into the available stroke at the M/C. (I'm going to replace mine - part number 272714).

I bought a set of "Speed Bleeder" nipples which have excellent reviews. Each one has a small check valve so that bleeding is a foolproof one man job. The threads even have a special self sealing compound on that is good for several bleeds and can be replaced if you buy a small bottle. I haven't got round to putting them in yet but I am hopeful.
Size SB3824L.
My Landy is a '62 SWB that I took on as someone else's abandoned "project" 3 years ago. It has been quite a journey!
Andrew